So, you’ve arrived in South Korea. You are excited, well caffeinated, and ready to explore. The subway is spotless, the streets are buzzing, and everything feels impressively efficient.
Before you accidentally commit a mild social crime while trying to be friendly, let’s talk about what not to do.
South Korea is modern and dynamic, but it is also deeply rooted in respect, hierarchy, and unspoken social rules. None of them are designed to trap tourists, but knowing them will save you from awkward glances and confused silence.
Here are 10 things you should absolutely avoid doing while travelling in South Korea.
1. Do Not Talk Loudly on Public Transport
🚇 The metro is not your living room.
Public transport, especially in cities like Seoul, is surprisingly quiet.
💡 Keep phone calls short or avoid them altogether. Conversations should be low and calm. Loud laughter will attract attention you do not want.
2. Do Not Stick Chopsticks Upright in Rice
🍚 It looks harmless. It is not.
Placing chopsticks vertically in a bowl of rice resembles a funeral ritual.
💡 Rest them on the side of your bowl instead. Small detail, big cultural difference.
3. Do Not Pour Your Own Drink in Social Settings
🍶 Especially with locals.
In group meals, it is customary to pour drinks for others rather than yourself.
💡 Keep an eye on other glasses and refill them. Someone will return the favour.
4. Do Not Ignore Hierarchy
🙇 Age and seniority matter.
Korean culture places importance on respect for elders and those in higher positions.
💡 Let older people enter first, speak first, and sit first when appropriate. It shows awareness and courtesy.
5. Do Not Wear Shoes Indoors
👟 Floors are sacred territory.
Many homes, guesthouses, and even some restaurants require you to remove your shoes.
💡 If you see a pile of shoes at the entrance, that is your clue. Follow the footwear trail.
6. Do Not Assume Everyone Speaks English
🌍 English is common, but not universal.
While younger generations often speak English, it is not guaranteed everywhere.
💡 Learn a few basic phrases. Even a simple “annyeonghaseyo” goes a long way.
7. Do Not Write Names in Red Ink
✍️ It feels dramatic. It is also symbolic.
Traditionally, red ink was used to write the names of the deceased.
💡 Stick to black or blue pens when signing guestbooks or notes.
8. Do Not Be Careless With Trash
🗑️ Bins are surprisingly rare.
You may walk for quite a while before spotting a public rubbish bin.
💡 Carry a small bag for your litter and dispose of it properly later. Clean streets are taken seriously.
9. Do Not Forget Basic Table Manners
🍽️ There are subtle rules.
Do not start eating before the eldest person begins. Do not lift rice bowls to your mouth like in some other Asian countries.
💡 Watch what locals do and mirror gently. Observation is your secret weapon.
10. Do Not Rush Through Everything
⚡ South Korea moves fast, but you do not have to.
Yes, cities like Busan and Seoul feel energetic and non stop. That does not mean you should sprint through your trip.
💡 Slow down occasionally. Sit in a café. Wander a traditional neighbourhood. Respect the rhythm rather than fighting it.
✨ Final Travel Advice
South Korea is welcoming, organised, and wonderfully layered. Most locals understand that travellers are learning. Mistakes happen. That is part of the adventure.
Be observant. Be polite. Lower your volume slightly. Remove your shoes when in doubt.
Do that, and you will navigate South Korea smoothly, respectfully, and without accidentally starting a cultural incident over a bowl of rice.
