So, you’ve mastered the “nǐ hǎo” and can now spot a dumpling stand from a mile away. You’re feeling pretty smug about your upcoming trip to China — and you should be! But before you charge out the hotel lobby with camera in hand, here are ten “don’ts” that’ll save you from awkward moments, baffled locals and the occasional tourist-sized disaster.
1. Don’t Stick Your Chopsticks Upright in Your Bowl
🥢 It might seem like a convenient resting position, but this is a huge no-no. In Chinese culture, it resembles incense used at funerals — not the vibe you want at dinner.
✅ Do: Lay your chopsticks across your plate or on a holder when you’re done.
2. Don’t Be Late for Trains (or Anything, Really)
⏱️ Trains in China don’t wait for stragglers. Not for you, not for your big suitcase and certainly not for your iced latte.
✅ Do: Arrive early, have your tickets ready and be prepared for security checks.
3. Don’t Assume Everyone Speaks English
🌐 Big cities have some English speakers, sure, but in smaller towns? Not so much.
✅ Do: Learn a few basic phrases (nǐ hǎo, xiè xiè!) and have translation apps downloaded for emergencies.
4. Don’t Criticise the Food
🥡 Even if the stinky tofu is stinking a bit too much for your taste, best to smile and say “hǎo chī” (tasty) rather than cause a scene.
✅ Do: Try everything at least once — you might surprise yourself.
5. Don’t Lose Your Temper in Public
😡 Getting loud or aggressive in public is highly frowned upon. “Saving face” is vital in Chinese culture and a public outburst can be very embarrassing for everyone.
✅ Do: Stay calm, smile and ask for help quietly if needed.
6. Don’t Underestimate the Power of WeChat
📱 WeChat isn’t just a messaging app — it’s social media, mobile payments and a lifeline for daily life.
✅ Do: Get it set up before your trip, link a payment method if possible and use it for everything from paying for taxis to translating signs.
7. Don’t Talk Politics or Sensitive History
🤐 Avoid sensitive topics like Taiwan, Hong Kong or other political flashpoints. Even if you’re just making conversation, it’s best kept off the table.
✅ Do: Stick to neutral topics like travel, food and culture — everyone loves a chat about dumplings!
8. Don’t Flash Your Wealth
💳 Expensive jewellery, a wad of cash or the latest gadget aren’t a great idea in crowded tourist spots.
✅ Do: Stay low‑key. Use a money belt or a secure bag and only carry what you need.
9. Don’t Expect Personal Space
🚇 The concept of personal space? Let’s just say it’s flexible in China. Trains, buses and markets can be a squeeze and that’s totally normal.
✅ Do: Stay patient, stay alert and channel your inner Zen when things get tight.
10. Don’t Forget to Respect Local Customs and Religion
⛩️ Temples aren’t tourist hotspots. They’re sacred spaces. Dress modestly, stay quiet and ask permission before snapping photos.
✅ Do: Observe how locals behave and follow suit. A respectful visitor is always a welcome visitor.
🌟 Final Fortune Cookie Thought:
China is a land of rich culture, deep traditions and countless moments of wonder. By avoiding these common “don’ts,” you’ll not only save yourself from a few awkward encounters, but also show genuine respect for the places and people you visit. Stay open-minded, stay curious and remember — in China, a smile goes a long way.
